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Becoming a Southern Belle
Published Jan 29, 2008
1861 Girls’ School attendees learn how to properly conduct themselves while wearing period clothing.
Walk onto the grounds of the historic Athenaeum Rectory in Columbia during the annual 1861 Girls’ School, and you might forget you’re living in the 21st century.
For one week in July, the Athenaeum returns to the year 1861, as it provides the backdrop for teenage girls to learn the skills a young lady would have needed in the 19th century. Girls ages 14 through 18 travel from all over the country and beyond to attend the school. In 2006, girls attended from Germany and Canada.
“They learn things like ballroom dancing, etiquette, penmanship, needlework, Latin, hairstyling and mourning customs,” says Becky Logue, a volunteer at the Athenaeum Rectory. “Most the faculty are re-enactors and educators who take a week out of their summer to participate. This is the 18th year of the Girls’ School, and they’ve really developed it and honed their skills. Much of the staff has stayed the same since the beginning.”
Throughout the week, the girls stay with area host families and behave as if they were living in 1861, curtseying to elders and practicing other social graces. They dress in traditional 19th century costumes that they bring with them from home.
“There are some very beautiful gowns,” Logue says. “A lot of the girls make their own costumes with their mothers or grandmothers. They also order them off the Internet and arrange to rent them.”
Visitors to the Athenaeum during the 1861 Girls’ School might find girls in lavish hoopskirts practicing penmanship on the wraparound porch or playing parlor games inside the rectory, depending on the day’s schedule. Highlights of the week include a garden tea on the Athenaeum’s front lawn on Thursday afternoon and ommencement ceremonies and a grand ball on Friday evening. The girls are escorted at the ball by members of the Jackson Cadets, a fraternal service organization for high school boys.
“The Jackson Cadets take dance lessons with the girls all week, and they perform a grand march together at the ball,” Logue says. “It’s really something to see. There’s
a huge line of ball gowns.”
In 2007, 21 girls attended the 1861 Girls’ School, traveling from as far as New Hampshire and New Jersey.
“I chose to attend because I love history and costuming, and I thought it would be interesting to step back in time for a week,” says Sarah Lally of Fond du Lac, Wis. “I wanted to get a sense of what ladies had to go through back then and walk in their shoes.”
Katherine Marie Housley of Winchester, Tenn., heard about the girls’ school when she was little and looked forward to attending for several years.
“Nowadays we don’t slow down to do things with effort, and I wanted to know how to really act like a lady,” Housley says. “When someone comes to my house, I want to know how to present things to them properly. We learned things you’d need to know to host a dinner party or evening gathering.”
Now a longstanding Columbia tradition, the 1861 Girls’ School was founded by Mark Orman, who serves as its dance master.
“I was a summer tour guide at the Athenaeum 19 years ago, and I thought it would be neat to go back in time and see what life was like,” Orman says. “We get a lot of girls who come with little or no self confidence. A week of being told what to do and how to do it and mingling with other girls does them a lot of good.”
Some may argue that skills such as ballroom dancing and needlework aren’t necessary for women in the 21st century. But Angie McClanahan, a longtime faculty member at the 1861 Girls’ School, would beg to disagree.
“I don’t think being graceful and ladylike is ever out of style. It’s something that’s sorely missing in today’s society,” McClanahan says. “It’s a privilege to act as our ancestors did and learn how they lived their lives. This is such a unique opportunity for the girls – it’s once in a lifetime.”
Story by Jessica Mozo
Photo by Michael W. Bunch
Noted for its Moorish-Gothic architecture, the Athenaeum Rectory was built in 1835 as a home for Samuel Polk Walker, nephew of President James K. Polk.
Ironically, Walker never lived there, and its first occupant was the Rev. Franklin Gillette Smith, who started a nationally recognized girls’ school at the Athenaeum in 1852.
The school buildings and rectory stood on 22 acres and flourished until 1903, offering girls the same subjects young men pursued at the time, including physics, chemistry and biology.
In 1973, Smith’s granddaughter, Fannie Louise Davis, deeded the property to The Association for the Preservation of Tennessee Antiquities.
The Athenaeum is open for tours February through December and has several interesting features, including colorful flashed glass around the front door, an original fountain on the front lawn and a chandelier that was originally a gasolier.
Contact:
The next 1861 Girls’ School is slated for July 12-18, 2008. Tuition is $700.
A condensed version of the school will be held May 2-3, 2008 for ladies ages 19
and older.
For more information, call (931) 381-4822 or visit www.athenaeumrectory.com.
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By Bonnie Jones on 19 07 2008
By mariah taylor on 19 07 2009
I attended the 2009 girls school. It ended on Friday night. It was truly the best experiance of my whole life. I hope to stay connected with the athenaeum program for the rest of my life.
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I enjoyed the article. My daughter Rebecca attended in 2007 and it will be an unforgettable memory of a wonderful experience.
This year my son became a member of the Jackson cadets and this was also a great experience for him. This is such a great program for the guys as well.
Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to sow into the lives of these young people.
God Bless!
Bonnie